*lights a candle for Mayhem*
Indeed. Mayhem was a place for me, a place where I could hang out with like-minded crazy people, and not be judged or considered "weird" for playing some offbeat characters.
The new (rebooted, and now 100% troll-free) EGS forum on 910CMX is showing some promise, both for roleplaying and general hanging out, with a small but slowly growing Games area. ProfessorTomoe has started a new incarnation of the Waffle House there, and there's a Last Post Wins thread that is showing some promise.
It's not quite Mayhem, but it definitely shows promise.Come see for yourself.