I'll second Cullin's thank-you. As a Protestant from a Pentacostal/Charismatic background, I like to think I've seen both the best and the worst of modern Christianity in that culture. And while bigotry of the sort practiced by Nanase's mom is often correlated with conservative Christianity, I'll hasten to point out that hatred of any sort is antithetical to what we believe. Which doesn't mean it doesn't crop up with disturbing frequency ... but I neither make excuses for that nor lay the blame for it at the foot of the cross. I thank all of you for not making the over-generalizations about my own people that are so common on the Internet. I'm impressed with the quality of the people here.
As for Nanase, I imagine that she's going through the crisis of identity that all of us experience in our teenage years -- even more so, since she's also struggling with her gender preferences. I suspect her reasons for wearing the cross are mixed, and probably not entirely known even to herself. In one respect, it's a shield against her mother's criticism -- "I'm still a good girl, don't get mad at me" -- and the fact that it's so prominent makes it a rather loud proclamation of her loyalties. The lady doth protest too much, methinks.
At the same time, though, the fact that she still feels the need to belong to the church -- that she fears the consequences of coming out even when she feels like she's drowning -- makes me think that it matters to her as more than something to make her mom happy. She may just want to feel like she still belongs to the world she was raised in -- and believe me, when you grow up in that kind of family, you eat, sleep, and breathe church -- or it may be that she does have faith, to some extent. She may fear that God will reject her for what she has become, in which case the cross is a reminder to
Him that she still wants to be part of His family. What she may be sorting through, right now, is whether Ellen is the sort of lover she can bring home to Father, regardless of what her mother says. It's not an easy decision to make.
But all of this, if it's happening at all, will be going on in the back of Nanase's mind, and we're not going to see it on screen -- because, as Dan points out, everybody's so sensitive about this issue that the only way to deal with it is to go out of your way to show that you aren't being a bigot (in either direction). The essentials of Nanase's struggle for identity can be dealt with without getting into the religious aspect directly, though it will surely always be a factor in her decisions. The familial conflict between mother and daughter is enough for a comic to deal with, and it can be dealt with more frankly without offending anyone in the audience. Probably a good call, Dan.
--Raven
"The only purpose for which power can be rightfully exercised over any member of a civilized community, against his will, is to prevent harm to others. His own good, either physical or moral, is not sufficient warrant."